What a mother should teach her adult son

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do or  more; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as  you have because she is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than  you; One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply       Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met; One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some                            and trust her; One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your unconditional  sharing  of  domestic work, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it. But not many guys understand this...... Please appreciate "HER"       &      Respect Her.                     I hope you will do....  .  .  .  .

Weekend Fun : An insight into men and women's nature

Men:

1. All men are extremely busy.
2. Although they are so busy, they still have time for women.
3. Although they have time for women, they don’t really care for them.
4. Although they don’t really care for them, they always have one around.
5. Although they always have one around them, they always try their luck with others.



Women:

1. The most important thing for a woman is financial security.
2. Although this is so important, they still go out and buy expensive clothes and stuff.
3. Although they always buy expensive clothes , they never have something to wear.
4. Although they never have something to wear, they always dress beautifully.
5. Although they always dress beautifully, their clothes are always just “an old rag”.
6. Although their clothes are always “just an old rag”, they still expect you to compliment them.
7. Although they expect you to compliment them, when you do, they don’t believe you

ESSENCE OF GEETHA

WHAT HAPPENED WAS GOOD
WHAT IS HAPPENING IS HAPPENING GOOD
WHAT WILL HAPPEN WILL DEFINITELY BE GOOD
WHAT DID YOU MISS FOR WHICH YOU WEEP?
WHAT DID YOU BRING FOR YOU TO LOSE?
DID YOU CREATE ANY THING FOR YOU TO FORFEIT?
WHATEVER YOU GOT IS FROM "HERE"
WHATEVER YOU GAVE IT IS "HERE"
TODAY WHAT IS YOURS,
YESTERDAY IT WAS NOT YOURS,
TOMORROW IT WILL BELONG TO SOMEBODY ELSE

"CHANGE" IS THE ORDER OF LIFE.
Regards,
Pushpa R Kamath
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Welcome Aboard Pushpa

Nice seeing your post. It is good that all the allbank ladies are keeping contact with you. It would get more exciting if everyone comes on board and starts posting views on a variety of topics concerning women.Any aspect of womanly matters can be discussed about.We could make this a platform for starting some sort of an organisation to work for the betterment of womenfolk.

hi, Pushpa here!

I am very happy to join All Bank Ladies circle. Thanks Lakshmi. I request all the ladies to join this circle. Then only the real maza comes. I am slowly settling down here. You all are most welcome to Delhi. Recently i met Anitha (mrs jain), Latha (mrs mehrotra) Alpana(mrs Ashwini) We had very good time together in Lucknow. Nothing more at present. meet some other day
Regards,
Pushpa R Kamath

Great Thoughts By Great Personalities

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Welldone Lakshmi

Good to see the Allbank ladies circle blog,credit goes to Laxmi.Hope everyone will start posting their comments very soon.We are really missing Mrs Kamath and all those fun we had with her.I spoke to her recently and she is planning to start ladies forum in PNB also.Looking forward to meet everyone on 18th.Thankyou very much Laxmi for providing this to us.

Farewell to the founder Pushpa Kamat

We met on the 30th of November to bid farewell to Pushpa Kamat, first lady of Allbank as Mr.K R Kamat took over as chairman of PNB. The meeting was held at Ira's residence.It was a day when we played slightly different games than we did before which included some dancing. On the whole we had fun with Pushpa shedding tears at having to leave. I tried to cheer her up by singing "For she's a jolly good lady" with everyone clapping to make up for "beats".

Will try to post an article on "gender bias" which was discussed by me in the previous meeting.We meet again on the 18th.

Till then,

Cheers,
Lakshmi